- Personally, I believe that the difference between “manners to be observed” and “unnecessary manners” lies in whether they make the other person happy by being observed.#happiness
- Manners such as seating arrangements do not necessarily make anyone happy.
- But when I think about it, based on the above definition,
- If observing “unnecessary manners” actually makes the other person happy, then it would mean that these manners should also be observed.
- Based on the above definition, if a subordinate observes the rule of seating arrangements and it makes their boss feel good, then it should be observed.
- The cost to the observer is not included in the definition.
- If observing “unnecessary manners” actually makes the other person happy, then it would mean that these manners should also be observed.
- This differs from my own perspective.
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